| Principle 1 | We, as parents, are the authority in our homes. |
| Principle 2 | Our children are inherently good, capable and trustworthy. |
| Principle 3 | Our children long to feel love and connection. |
| Principle 4 | We are responsible ‘to’ but not ‘for’ our children. |
| Principle 5 | Our children are responsible for themselves. |
| Principle 6 | Growth requires effort, even struggle. |
| Principle 7 | Limits and consequences teach wisdom and responsibility. |
| Principle 8 | Successful parenting requires that we grow ourselves first. |
| Principle 9 | We are imperfect (and that is okay). |
